what ‘excuse’ should i use to talk to this cute guy in local electronic store?
last week i was drinking in a pub with a male friend this cute guy came over to borrow a ciggi, he was so cute, he was really easy going and cool, he told us that he worked at the local electronic store, the store sells everything from TV to heater…. I am planning to go there and have a chat him next week, please give me some good ‘excuse’ to go there and talk to him, a good excuse will not let me look too desperate please?
Hopefully you are a divorced single and not still married. Just be an adult and remember this is not high school and just go in and say hello. Tell him that you were in the area and just wanted to say hello. If he paid any attention to you at the pub, and not married, he might just taake a coffee break and chat. That usually leads to a date if he likes you plus he will respect you for not playing little school girl games to meet him.
March 21st, 2010 at 4:33 am
Say you are looking to buy a TV and remembered he mentioned working there, then flirt with him a little bit and if you feel good around him give him your number.
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March 21st, 2010 at 5:11 am
Well you could always just say that you were walking by and you thought u would drop in and say hello. Or that you are thinking about buying a new appliance or electronic. Although it might seem kidna fishy….thats why I always make it like I was thinking about them but in a non weird way. Like I would say "oh I needed a new TV and I remembered you worked here, so I thought u might be able to help me.." does that make Sense?
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March 21st, 2010 at 5:48 am
If you simply told him you dropped by to say "Hi" to him, why would that make you look desperate? Why are women always so worried about this? You don’t know this guy from Adam, and you want to start things off with head games right away? Be straightforward with him. Tell him that you thought he was great the other evening, and you remembered where he said he worked, so thought you’d drop by. Unless he’s an arrogant ass (which isn’t how you describe him) I’m sure he’ll be, at the very least, flattered. I know I would be. If he seems interested, ask him to go for coffee (or something) after he gets off work. If not, then no harm, no foul. You can just say it was nice seeing him again, and carry on your way. You don’t need any other excuse other than you found him interesting, and you want to get to know him better. What more do you need?
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March 21st, 2010 at 6:02 am
Walk in, say "Hi," make some small talk for a couple of minutes, and then ask him out for a drink. Don’t make something up. Be mature and ask for what you want, always. Start out being honest, not game playing.
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March 21st, 2010 at 6:39 am
Hopefully you are a divorced single and not still married. Just be an adult and remember this is not high school and just go in and say hello. Tell him that you were in the area and just wanted to say hello. If he paid any attention to you at the pub, and not married, he might just taake a coffee break and chat. That usually leads to a date if he likes you plus he will respect you for not playing little school girl games to meet him.
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March 21st, 2010 at 7:28 am
Have you ever been in that store before? If not, then be curious. About what’s in the store including him.
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March 21st, 2010 at 7:37 am
Tell him you were planning on going back to the Pub on __________, and wondered if he would like to meet you there for a drink. (Then set up the day and time).
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March 21st, 2010 at 7:57 am
Well why not just go in the store browse around and when you see him just strike up a conversation be yourself..you know you aren’t desperate. It isn’t hard to say hello, how have been, casually find out if he has a girlfriend or if he’s married…with something like " I’m thinking of having a group of friends over for a …..I’d like to know if you and your wife/girlfriend would like to come join us. when he answers you will know whether or not he’s taken…if he says he has no wife or girlfriend than continue the conversation ask him a few of his likes etc. then if you find him interesting, just slip him your cell number ..let him know he is welcome to call you later ( he’s still on the clock ) keep the conversation short,browse a little more and then exit the store…don’t take your girls with you..there is nothing worse than talking with someone you really like and there is no privacy (all eyes and ears wait’n for the next word to drop) a complete turn off .Just be yourself you don’t need an excuse to be a friend, you will peak his interest enough for him to call!
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